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Celebrating Jody on her Birthday

May 14, 2023 by Diana -

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Today, Mother’s Day, is when we celebrate Jody’s birthday. Though she is no longer physically with us, we held a celebration in her honor for all of the other chimpanzees, and they thoroughly enjoyed the watermelon bowl themed party (photos to follow).

As I was taking photos of Jody’s group during their watermelon bowl forage, I noticed that Missy had gone to the spot where we planted lilac bushes and trees. The spot where Jody is now buried.

It’s very probably that Missy was checking the area to see if she missed some food, but I like to think she was also saying happy birthday to her friend:

Thank you to everyone who have sponsored days and made donations in Jody’s honor and who have sent us amazing heartfelt cards and messages of condolence. I love hearing how people were touched by her life and her death.

Today, we made some changes to Jody’s page on our website to include a donation link to give specifically in memory of Jody for those who wish to do so.

If you scroll to the bottom of Jody’s page, you can see that it is open for comments, so please do feel free to leave a message their about Jody or in her memory. We really appreciate how many people are grieving for her.

 

Now for those watermelon bowl photos…

Annie:

Foxie:

Jamie:

Burrito:

Dora:

The bovines also had a great day! They were released onto the upper pasture for spring grazing!

13 Comments

  1. Avatar Sherry on May 14, 2023 at 6:16 pm

    Seeing Jody’s grave made the tears flow. Especially with Missy standing over it. Happy Birthday sweet Jody…you are missed, but not forgotten!



    • Avatar Tobin on May 14, 2023 at 6:36 pm

      Sherry,

      I share your grief. I miss seeing the friend we loved. Nevertheless, I am relieved and grateful that the remains of Jody were returned to Young’s Hill, where she and her friends found sanctuary and a life where they could be in the Natural world.



      • Avatar Sherry on May 15, 2023 at 10:50 am

        Tobin…I’mglad too. I was actually afraid to ask if her remains would come back to the sanctuary, for fear the answer might be no. It’s comforting to know she’s home with her family. The lilacs are a beautiful tribute.



  2. Avatar Linda C on May 14, 2023 at 6:17 pm

    Thank you, Diana.
    I like that things continued on as they would have were Jody still there. And that you’ve planted the lilac bushes at her gravesite.

    Jamie and Foxie scored two each! Maybe it’s my imagination, but it looks like Jamie’s trying to walk while her toes are curling in happiness!



  3. Avatar Margaret on May 14, 2023 at 6:55 pm

    Thank you for bringing us with you until Jody is safely tucked into het warm grave and thankyou for celebrating her birthday anyway. i love that she has lilacs growing on top of her. Sweet Jody. you will be forever missed and forever loved.



  4. Avatar Judy on May 14, 2023 at 7:03 pm

    Thank you Diana for the wise words and touching photographs, I have strong reason to believe that Missy, and I would rhink the others over time, will be aware that Jody is in that location in a physical sense.. as she is everywhere in an etherial sense. Such a “coming together” of all of us and our emotions… Hugs to all.



  5. Avatar Gaynell on May 14, 2023 at 7:11 pm

    Of course Missy may have been checking for some food, but i’d like to think she was taking a moment to say, “good bye my dear. sweet friend. i am happy you are still present among the lilacs and we will continue to visit you.” What a touching moment.



  6. Avatar Kathleen on May 14, 2023 at 7:21 pm

    I loved seeing Jody’s garden. I loved seeing Missy exploring the new addition to the hill. Perhaps she understood the significance of it all. (Or perhaps she was looking to see if cherry tomato plants had been included.) Fortunately you had a beautiful day to celebrate Jody.

    Happy birthday dear Jody.

    I heard this song the other day. Hadn’t heard it since my youth but hearing it now I somehow felt it was being sung for all of you and for your loss. For sanctuary. For Jody.

    LOVE SONG
    (Music & lyrics by Lesley Duncan, sung by Elton John)

    The words I have to say
    May well be simple but they’re true
    Until you give your love
    There’s nothing more that we can do
    Love is the opening door
    Love is what we came here for
    No one could offer you more
    Do you know what I mean
    Have your eyes really seen

    You say it’s very hard
    To leave behind the life we knew
    But there’s no other way
    And now it’s really up to you

    Love is the key we must turn
    Truth is the flame we must burn
    Freedom the lesson we must learn
    Do you know what I mean
    Have your eyes really seen

    Love is the opening door
    Love is what we came here for
    No one could offer you more
    Do you know what I mean
    Have your eyes really seen
    (Listen on YouTube : https://youtu.be/FFRFdx-RjLw)



    • Avatar CarolR on May 14, 2023 at 8:50 pm

      Perfect, Kathleen…..for our dear Jody. I’m still missing her so much, like thousands of others, I’m sure. Still the tears flow when looking at her photos, but this one of her resting place with her favourite lilacs is just beautiful.



    • Avatar Maureen on May 14, 2023 at 8:51 pm

      So moving. Thank you. And I believe Missy knew exactly where she was and was honoring Jody, as all of us are this weekend and always.



  7. Avatar CarolR on May 15, 2023 at 5:32 am

    Me again! Did you take the usual video of the bovines heading out to their summer pasture? It’s always such fun to see their excitement.



    • Avatar Diana on May 18, 2023 at 5:03 pm

      J.B. did take a video! Perhaps he will post it the next time he writes the blog.



  8. Avatar marianne on May 15, 2023 at 5:59 am

    Thank you Diana, for including us by showing the lovely place where Jody is burried right on the hill she knew so well.
    And I am convinced Missy felt Jody’s presence and was connecting with her energy.
    I am curious to see if Negra will do the same….



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